Qitzur Shulchan Arukh – 67:11

יא: אֵיזֶה נְדָרִים יְכוֹלִין הָאָב אוֹ הַבַּעַל לְהָפֵר. דַּוְקָא דְּבָרִים שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָהֶם עִנּוּי נֶפֶשׁ, כְּגוֹן רְחִיצָה, קִשּׁוּט, כִּחוּל וּפִרְכּוּס, וְכַיּוֹצֵא בָּזֶה. וְהַבַּעַל יָכוֹל לְהָפֵר גַּם דְּבָרִים שֶׁאֵין בָּהֶם עִנּוּי נֶפֶשׁ, אִם הֵן מִן הַדְּבָרִים שֶׁבֵּין אִישׁ לְאִשְׁתּוֹ וְגוֹרְמִים אֵיבָה בֵּינֵיהֶם . אֲבָל אֵלּוּ, אֵינָן מֻתָּרִים אֶלָּא כָּל זְמַן שֶׁהִיא יוֹשֶׁבֶת תַּחְתָּיו. וּלְאַחַר שֶׁנִּתְאַלְמְנָה אוֹ נִתְגָּרְשָׁה, אֲסוּרָה בָּהֶן

Which nedarim can a father or husband overturn? Specifically [those in] things that cause personal suffering, such as washing, jewelry, eye shadow or rouge, and anything of the like. The husband can also overturn [oaths in] things that do not involve personal suffering if they are things between a man and his wife and would cause strife between them. However, these are only if she is living with him, and once she is widowed or divorced, she is prohibited in them.

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