Tefillah Meanings: Gratitude for the Flow from Above
From Idea, to Identifying the Good, to Gratitude to its Provider
by Micha Berger · Published October 9, 2026 – כ״ח בתשרי תשפ״ז · Last modified October 9, 2026
From Idea, to Identifying the Good, to Gratitude to its Provider
Amidah / Holidays / Teshuvah / Yir`ah
by Micha Berger · Published September 17, 2026 – ו׳ בתשרי תשפ״ז · Last modified September 18, 2026
This tefillah says that Hashem places pachad on all that He made, and eimah on that which He created. But while those two were provided by Hashem, not so yir’ah.
Rachmanus / Tefillah / Teshuvah
by Micha Berger · Published September 16, 2026 – ה׳ בתשרי תשפ״ז · Last modified September 16, 2026
We blow teqi’ah, shevarim teru’ah, teqi’ah. Then with just shevarim in between, then teru’ah. Different communities had opinions, and R’ Avahu thought it was appropriate to unite by everyone doing all three. … His point was that you don’t understand crying until you listen to everyone’s cry
by Micha Berger · Published March 6, 2026 – י״ז באדר תשפ״ו · Last modified March 6, 2026
The gemara on Berakhos 6a states something very intriguing: אָמַר רַבִּי אָבִין בַּר רַב אַדָּא, אָמַר רַבִּי יִצְחָק: מִנַּיִן שֶׁהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מַנִּיחַ תְּפִילִּין שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״נִשְׁבַּע ה׳ בִּימִינוֹ וּבִזְרוֹעַ עֻזּוֹ״. Rabbi Avin bar Rav...
by Micha Berger · Published February 4, 2026 – י״ז בשבט תשפ״ו · Last modified February 4, 2026
“Rabbi Elazar haKappar said: envy, desire and [the pursuit of] honor take a person out of the world.” (Avos 4:21)
According to the Vilna Gaon, this mishnah is the key to understanding the opening three lines of Elokai Netzor, each of which ask Hashem for help avoiding one of these faults.
That’s one dimension. The other is that for each kind of character flaw we ask for help in two areas: (1) not expressing the fault, and (2) not even harboring it internally.
by Micha Berger · Published January 23, 2026 – ה׳ בשבט תשפ״ו · Last modified January 23, 2026
Shalom rav is the unity and wholeness of self that eliminates all obstacles from the path of the lover of Torah. Sheleimus within each heart being expressed as sheleimus within humanity as a whole.
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And since learning this idea, I have had a warm spot for the Shalom Rav, as I didn’t see this thought in the Sim Shalom version.
Until I noticed something. There are two lists of berakhos that we ask Hashem to bestow on us in Sim Shalom
by Micha Berger · Published January 20, 2026 – ב׳ בשבט תשפ״ו · Last modified January 16, 2026
Modim ends, “בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה’ הַטּוֹב שִׁמְךָ וּלְךָ נָאֶה לְהוֹדוֹת – … Your name is ‘The Good’, and it is pleasant to praise You.”
Yes, I believe we are saying Hashem’s name is “HaTov”, and not that His name / reputation in the world is known to be good.
by Micha Berger · Published January 16, 2026 – כ״ז בטבת תשפ״ו · Last modified January 16, 2026
You might have thought that the fourth “ve’al” was “for Your wonders and good things which are at all times, [meaning:] evening, morning and afternoon.” But that would be very problematic, as we would be overlooking all the miracles that happen at night. … [Instead,] we are giving the times when we praise Hashem: Shacharis, Minchah and Maariv.
by Micha Berger · Published January 9, 2026 – כ׳ בטבת תשפ״ו · Last modified January 9, 2026
We already saw the Gra explained that we receive from Hashem in four ways. And that this also feels to me like a key part of the requests that are the heart of Shemoneh Esrei…
And so, it should be unsurprising that in Modim we thank and face our need to be dependent on Hashem for four things.
by Micha Berger · Published January 7, 2026 – י״ח בטבת תשפ״ו · Last modified January 7, 2026
Of all the paths to Torah that the shevatim developed, when it came time to rebuild the Jewish People and our nature ever since, is Juda-ism — a religion in which hoda’ah is fundamental. …
And so Modim is not “only” an expression of thanks to our Creator, it is also the Jew’s central means of connecting to Him.
by Micha Berger · Published November 21, 2025 – א׳ בכסלו תשפ״ו · Last modified November 21, 2025
Rav Yosef Ber Soloveitchik zt”l describes two mitzvos as emulating Tzimtzum: … The physical emulation of Tzimtzum is the mitzvah of Hachnasas Orechim… The Middah of Anavah is an internal emulation of Tzimtzum…. We need to emulate Tzimtzum. Not just to constrict ourselves, but to make room within ourselves for the other. We need to constrict our attention to the “atzmi”, the “self” in the limited sense inhabiting this body, to grow an “I” (as Rav Shimon Shkop puts it), that is a network of relationship to other people, to Hashem, and to the world around us. To make a place where we can connect…
1- Bereishis / Birkhas haMazon / Chessed
by Micha Berger · Published November 13, 2025 – כ״ב במרחשוון תשפ״ו · Last modified November 13, 2025
A wealthy person is one who realized they have enough, exactly what Hashem deems they need to accomplish what they’re supposed to in life.
But to have everything is to be in a position where one can give to others.
by Micha Berger · Published June 27, 2025 – א׳ בתמוז תשפ״ה · Last modified October 27, 2025
There is a general sense that there is something much more muted in our response to the miraculous quick turn-around in this recent Twelve Day War than there was after the Six Day War....
3- Vayiqra / Anger / Shaarei Yosher
by Micha Berger · Published May 12, 2025 – י״ד באייר תשפ״ה · Last modified October 27, 2025
I noticed that parshanim explaining the chumash on the one hand, and shas and posqim showing how the pasuq is associated with halakhah on the other, often end up giving different explanations of pesuqim...
by Micha Berger · Published May 30, 2024 – כ״ב באייר תשפ״ד · Last modified October 27, 2025
Parashas Behar is a list of mitzvos. The first section is all about shemittah and yovel. A family’s ancestral land cannot be sold into perpetuity. Instead, if someone is forced to sell their holdings,...
by Micha Berger · Published January 8, 2024 – כ״ז בטבת תשפ״ד · Last modified October 27, 2025
והיה רגיל להוכיח אותי על שראה שאינני משתתף בצערא דאחרינא. וכה היה דברו אלי תמיד שזה כל האדם. לא לעצמו נברא רק להועיל לאחריני ככל אשר ימצא בכחו לעשות. [My father, Rav Chaim Volozhiner,]...
4- Bamidbar / Anavah / Clothing
by Micha Berger · Published June 23, 2023 – ד׳ בתמוז תשפ״ג · Last modified October 27, 2025
The Medrash about Qorach rhetorically asking of Moshe why a tallis that is made of tekheiles would need one more tekheiles thread for tzitzis ties the mitzvah of tzitzis to the next story in the Chumash – Qorach. The words of the parashah about tzitzis tie it to a slightly earlier story – the meraglim. ,,,
Anavah / Bitachon / Holidays / Yir`ah
by Micha Berger · Published December 22, 2022 – כ״ח בכסלו תשפ״ג · Last modified October 27, 2025
Don’t picture a single jar of oil found amidst the rubble. The Beis haMiqdash wasn’t trashed, it was perverted into a Temple of Zeus. … That single jar oil needed to be searched for because it had been hidden. Who hid it?
by Micha Berger · Published October 8, 2022 – י״ג בתשרי תשפ״ג · Last modified October 27, 2025
Rav Aharon Lichtenstein zt”l proved that the common knowledge is simply wrong….
Mishum eivah is “merely” the importance of keeping hatred out of the world.
Whereas darkei Shalom is the ultimate – to walk in Hashem’s and His Torah’s ways.
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published September 21, 2022 – כ״ה באלול תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Wednesday nights (September 14th and 21st, 2022) the Beyond Meaningful Relationship – Relationshipful Meaning chaburah completed our study of Rav Dessler’s Qunterus haChessed.
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published September 7, 2022 – י״א באלול תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Wednesday night (August 24th, 2022) the Beyond Meaningful Relationship – Relationshipful Meaning chaburah continued our study of Rav Dessler’s Qunterus haChessed chapters 4 through 6 (pp. 35-39)…. This week we saw how …[g]iving leads to love, far more than the other way around.
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published August 31, 2022 – ד׳ באלול תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Wednesday night (August 24th, 2022) the Beyond Meaningful Relationship – Relationshipful Meaning chaburah continued our study of Rav Dessler’s Qunterus haChessed chapters 4 through 6 (pp. 35-39)…. This week we saw how …[g]iving leads to love, far more than the other way around.
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published August 24, 2022 – כ״ז באב תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Wednesday night (August 24th, 2022) the Beyond Meaningful Relationship – Relationshipful Meaning chaburah continued our study of Rav Dessler’s Qunterus haChessed chapters 4 through 6 (pp. 35-39)…. This week we saw how …[g]iving leads to love, far more than the other way around.
5- Devarim / Dei`os / Other-Focused O / Yir`ah
by Micha Berger · Published August 19, 2022 – כ״ב באב תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Adding together the two pesuqim, then, we get a more complete description of the path Hashem expects us to walk:
1- To be aware of the enormity of the Divine,,,.
2- which should motivate us to emulate…
3- … we come to love Him
and aim everything at wholeheartedly following His Plan to be good to us.
4- Hashem gave us Jews the Torah and mitzvos …
5- To help us become good human beings, creatures who are fair, motivated by lovingkindness, humility, in our partnership with our Creator.
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published August 17, 2022 – כ׳ באב תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Wednesday night (August 17th, 2022) the Beyond Meaningful Relationship – Relationshipful Meaning chaburah started our study of Rav Dessler’s Qunterus haChessed ,,, chapters 1 through 3 (pp. 32-35). In them, Rav Dessler talks about the potentials in a person for nesinah and netilah — giving and taking. These potentials have more to do with attitude and motive than the actual action…
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published August 10, 2022 – י״ג באב תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
Wednesday night (August 10th, 2022) we completed our study of both versions of Rabbi Shlomo Wolbe’s essay Olam haYedidus. … [It] concludes with a discussion of zarus (estrangement) and akhzarius (cruelty,which Rav Dessler explains as a contraction of akh-zariyus – an extreme estangement). Our alienation from other people, from G-d and even our “need” to stay busy and never have to build a relationship with ourselves. Something to think about when singing “Mah yedidus menukhaseikh — How much affection inheres in your rest!” at the Shabbos table!
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published August 3, 2022 – ו׳ באב תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
The Beyond Meaningful Relationships – Relationshipful Meaning series at the kloiz meets on Wednesday nights at 8pm EDT. If you missed anything or just want to join mid-stream, there are always the posts in...
Ahavah / Audio / Ta`amei haMitzvos / Zelmele's Kloiz
by Micha Berger · Published July 27, 2022 – כ״ח בתמוז תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
The Beyond Meaningful Relationships – Relationshipful Meaning series at the kloiz meets on Wednesday nights at 8pm EDT. Even if you missed the discussion so far, this week was a great time to start!...
by Micha Berger · Published February 7, 2022 – ו׳ באדר א׳ תשפ״ב · Last modified October 27, 2025
When learning about berakhos, whether the halakhos or the latter third of the mesechta, I like to emphasize the following point… The vast majority of berakhos are derabbanan. So, why so many different berakhos,...
by Micha Berger · Published May 30, 2021 – י״ט בסיון תשפ״א · Last modified October 27, 2025
My previous post engendered a couple of responses and a follow-up thought of my own that I would like to share. A quick reminder: In that post, I suggested that maybe “וְהָאִ֥ישׁ מֹשֶׁ֖ה עָנָ֣ו...
by Micha Berger · Published May 28, 2021 – י״ז בסיון תשפ״א · Last modified October 27, 2025
A quick thought on something from the parashah (Behaalosekha), based on how one translates the words in the title. Bamidbar 12:3. The context is that Miriam and Aharon just complained about Moshe’s neglected wife,...
by Micha Berger · Published February 24, 2021 – י״ב באדר תשפ״א · Last modified October 27, 2025
Chessed / Other-Focused O / Other-Focused Orthodoxy
by Micha Berger · Published October 23, 2020 – ה׳ במרחשוון תשפ״א · Last modified October 27, 2025
On the topic of people insisting on maintaining risky behaviors during the corona pandemic… Too many of us are placing minyan, attending weddings or funerals, and other such mitzvos ahead of safety. Despite the...
by Micha Berger · Published July 29, 2020 – ח׳ באב תש״פ · Last modified October 27, 2025
To explain: My point is about holding grudges, even if the hatred initially had cause, perhaps even started out with a halachically appropriate one. Should you still hold on to the hatred, because it...
by Micha Berger · Published May 14, 2020 – כ׳ באייר תש״פ · Last modified October 27, 2025
You may have seen the Tao of Pooh and the Te of Piglet, but have you thought about the Selflessness of Eeyore? Eeyore is most famous for being depressed. If there is something wrong...
by Micha Berger · Published November 1, 2019 – ג׳ במרחשוון תש״פ · Last modified October 27, 2025
Moshe Steinberg asked on Mi Yodeya on April 2nd, 2018: Does the phrase b’ezras Hashem make sense philosophically and if so, what does it mean? B’ezras Hashem implies to me that a person can do...
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